Reached bangalore on 04th june morning.
Friday, June 8, 2012
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
how to be a good parent
1. Be involved in your child's life.
Being involved fully in your child’s life can be hard work, and more often than not means rethinking and rearranging your priorities. Lots of parents feel they don’t spend enough time with their children or that they have to sacrifice what they do for what the child wants. It’s important to get the balance right; if you work all week and can’t imagine a weekend looking after the children and need some ‘downtime’ yourself, make sure you make time for both. Take the children to the park, ice creams, read to them , spending quality time together but say ‘mummy/daddy needs an hour to catch up on emails/football etc’ to get the balance right.
2. Establish and set rules.
Make sure you and your partner stick to the same rules. It’s no good if Daddy comes home and lets the children have chocolate buttons after Mum has said they are only allowed a certain amount of chocolate if they are good! Establishing some ‘family rules’ with your children is a great way to communicate your expectations and be consistent in your parenting. Make sure there are no more than 3-5 house rules as too many can seem like lists and lists of rules which children would soon find tedious.
3. Avoid harsh discipline.
Many people use the same tactics their own parents used, and a lot of times that meant using really harsh discipline which can make children angrier and either more enclosed or more likely to take it out on others. Sometimes being a parent can make you very frustrated, especially when you have a whinging whining child (for no reason) and the child will not reason with you. The best thing to do in this circumstance is try not to make an issue out of the whinging by not getting cross. Laughing during a tense moment can ease the pressure off you and may even make the child stop the tantrum when they realise it really doesn’t work. Take a moment to stop, breathe, count to ten and carry on as normal with what you are doing. Your child will hopefully get the point that you are not interested in the tantrum and you can make light of it.
4. Explain your rules and decisions.
Always explain your rules and decisions so that your children know exactly why you are punishing/praising them and they can learn from this. For example, ‘Smita, I am not going to give you your chocolate cake until you finish your gobi because you have to eat up your dinner before you can go on and have a desert’, rather than a simple no.
5. Treat your child with respect
Sometimes it’s difficult to understand the sheer dependency and enormity of raising children and parents do often view them as small beings who really should be grateful, have less tantrums, stop whinging, and stop arguing with their siblings etc. These are all ideal types of behaviour which we would love children to understand, but in truth, the ungratefulness, tantrums, whinging and so on, can be down to parents barking orders all day long, ignoring common courtesies toward the child, and in defiance, children ignore the parents altogether. The best approach would be to treat your child as respectfully as you yourself would like to be treated.
6. Help them feel safe
It is very important for children to feel safe and this can start at home by hanging family portraits around the house, or pictures of them with their siblings in their bedrooms -a great way of giving them a sense of belonging.
Try not to argue with your spouse in front of the children. If they are sleeping, argue quietly. Children may feel insecure and fearful when they hear parents bickering. Also, children will learn to argue with each other the same way as they hear their parents argue with each other. The best way to deal with this is to show them that when people disagree, they can discuss their differences peacefully.
7. Do Something Familiar.
Children love routine and ritual, and if there is a special thing you and your children love doing, make time to make it part of your day/week. A particular story you always read before bedtime or something you always say to them before they go to bed. Children love the repetition of something lovely and will remember these little loving moments as they get older.
8. Read together
No matter whether you have a tiny baby or a wriggly toddler, they all love to be read to. You may need to adapt what you read slightly, more colourful bold books for babies, and simple, funny or sweet stories for toddlers. A 4-5 year old will be able to handle slightly more complex story and interesting illustrations. Reading with your child creates a perfect bonding time together.
9. Find out one important thing about your child’s day.
Although this really applies to slightly older children, finding something important about what they did at nursery or the childminders or even if they had a day out with daddy, is very important. It shows that you are interested in what they do and involved in their world. As they get older this can work as they may tell you the good things but also comfortable enough to tell you their worries and fears.
10. Don’t worry about the previous nine items.
Just when you think you’re doing ok as a parent, then along comes an article like this one to make you feel like you are not doing the job right!? Of course, that’s not the point. All the goals we’ve listed are worth aiming for, but no one will ever accomplish all of them, every day. So don’t beat yourself up trying to do the impossible. If expectations seem to high, be realistic about it and try not to judge yourself against other parents… remember they are probably feeling like you do as well.
A good way to look at how to become a good parent, is to try and enjoy the time you have with your little ones. Take a step back, take a breath, look at these little people you have created and spend time with them. It’s these moments with your children that make them feel loved. Leave the washing for another few minutes, have that chat with a friend on the phone a bit later and take those extra moments to spend with your children.
source and copyright: yahoo lifestyle
Being involved fully in your child’s life can be hard work, and more often than not means rethinking and rearranging your priorities. Lots of parents feel they don’t spend enough time with their children or that they have to sacrifice what they do for what the child wants. It’s important to get the balance right; if you work all week and can’t imagine a weekend looking after the children and need some ‘downtime’ yourself, make sure you make time for both. Take the children to the park, ice creams, read to them , spending quality time together but say ‘mummy/daddy needs an hour to catch up on emails/football etc’ to get the balance right.
2. Establish and set rules.
Make sure you and your partner stick to the same rules. It’s no good if Daddy comes home and lets the children have chocolate buttons after Mum has said they are only allowed a certain amount of chocolate if they are good! Establishing some ‘family rules’ with your children is a great way to communicate your expectations and be consistent in your parenting. Make sure there are no more than 3-5 house rules as too many can seem like lists and lists of rules which children would soon find tedious.
3. Avoid harsh discipline.
Many people use the same tactics their own parents used, and a lot of times that meant using really harsh discipline which can make children angrier and either more enclosed or more likely to take it out on others. Sometimes being a parent can make you very frustrated, especially when you have a whinging whining child (for no reason) and the child will not reason with you. The best thing to do in this circumstance is try not to make an issue out of the whinging by not getting cross. Laughing during a tense moment can ease the pressure off you and may even make the child stop the tantrum when they realise it really doesn’t work. Take a moment to stop, breathe, count to ten and carry on as normal with what you are doing. Your child will hopefully get the point that you are not interested in the tantrum and you can make light of it.
4. Explain your rules and decisions.
Always explain your rules and decisions so that your children know exactly why you are punishing/praising them and they can learn from this. For example, ‘Smita, I am not going to give you your chocolate cake until you finish your gobi because you have to eat up your dinner before you can go on and have a desert’, rather than a simple no.
5. Treat your child with respect
Sometimes it’s difficult to understand the sheer dependency and enormity of raising children and parents do often view them as small beings who really should be grateful, have less tantrums, stop whinging, and stop arguing with their siblings etc. These are all ideal types of behaviour which we would love children to understand, but in truth, the ungratefulness, tantrums, whinging and so on, can be down to parents barking orders all day long, ignoring common courtesies toward the child, and in defiance, children ignore the parents altogether. The best approach would be to treat your child as respectfully as you yourself would like to be treated.
6. Help them feel safe
It is very important for children to feel safe and this can start at home by hanging family portraits around the house, or pictures of them with their siblings in their bedrooms -a great way of giving them a sense of belonging.
Try not to argue with your spouse in front of the children. If they are sleeping, argue quietly. Children may feel insecure and fearful when they hear parents bickering. Also, children will learn to argue with each other the same way as they hear their parents argue with each other. The best way to deal with this is to show them that when people disagree, they can discuss their differences peacefully.
7. Do Something Familiar.
Children love routine and ritual, and if there is a special thing you and your children love doing, make time to make it part of your day/week. A particular story you always read before bedtime or something you always say to them before they go to bed. Children love the repetition of something lovely and will remember these little loving moments as they get older.
8. Read together
No matter whether you have a tiny baby or a wriggly toddler, they all love to be read to. You may need to adapt what you read slightly, more colourful bold books for babies, and simple, funny or sweet stories for toddlers. A 4-5 year old will be able to handle slightly more complex story and interesting illustrations. Reading with your child creates a perfect bonding time together.
9. Find out one important thing about your child’s day.
Although this really applies to slightly older children, finding something important about what they did at nursery or the childminders or even if they had a day out with daddy, is very important. It shows that you are interested in what they do and involved in their world. As they get older this can work as they may tell you the good things but also comfortable enough to tell you their worries and fears.
10. Don’t worry about the previous nine items.
Just when you think you’re doing ok as a parent, then along comes an article like this one to make you feel like you are not doing the job right!? Of course, that’s not the point. All the goals we’ve listed are worth aiming for, but no one will ever accomplish all of them, every day. So don’t beat yourself up trying to do the impossible. If expectations seem to high, be realistic about it and try not to judge yourself against other parents… remember they are probably feeling like you do as well.
A good way to look at how to become a good parent, is to try and enjoy the time you have with your little ones. Take a step back, take a breath, look at these little people you have created and spend time with them. It’s these moments with your children that make them feel loved. Leave the washing for another few minutes, have that chat with a friend on the phone a bit later and take those extra moments to spend with your children.
source and copyright: yahoo lifestyle
Thursday, March 1, 2012
FAQs regarding re-location to Nairobi Kenya
the answers are gathered from multiple people working in Kenya and then consolidated
1. How good are the living conditions - can it be comparable to the Tier I (Mumbai, Delhi, Chennai) or Tier II (Nagpur, Cochin, Mysore) cities in India?
* (opinion 1) Its good clean city, infrastructure and facilities compared to Pune/ Nagpur.
But Nightlife and entertainment compared to Mumbai. Lots of restaurants and hang out places, and fun loving crowd.
* (opinion 2) Nairobi is just a replica of Bangalore. Good weather and hectic traffic
2. How good are the schooling facilities at Nairobi? Are any Indian Schools available?
* Yes Schooling is good, Catholic schools and Asian Schools are there apart from local.
Indian School OSHWAL ACADEMY and AGHA KHAN SCHOOL is there.
3. What is the academic year followed at Kenya? Like June to April in India.
* June to April
4. What is the cost for a good 3 bedroom apartment for rental in safe neighborhood?
* 35,000 Ksh to 45,000 Ksh in a good locality;
Apartments with security services Budget 15,000 to 25,000 Ksh (.61 INR = 1 Kenya Shillings)
5. How are the general living conditions for the following:
* Living - 15,000 ksh Grocery
* Transport - Use company car /Taxi depending on distance
* Medical treatment - Hospitals are good. Insurance is available and is costly than INDIA
* School education - UK education system & Kenya board
* Telephones - 5 Mobile operators & Internet providers
* Food and restaurants - Very good Indian restaurants too.
6. Can you please provide some inputs on the income tax details for salaried Indian expats?
* 30 % Tax deducted at source on basic and commissions. Not yet found any tax savings Instrument for expats.
Some companies pay net figure after all the tax deductions.
7. Are earnings and savings eligible for repatriation from Kenya without many restrictions? Will there be any taxes and withholding fees for remittances into India?
* Remittance is no issues; not taxed, charges for remittance Ksh 2000 to HDFC /ICICI etc
* Indian banks are there Bank of India / Bank of Baroda, HDFC has partnership with local bank.
* Some companies pay expat salary in USD and partly in Ksh for local expenses.
8. I understand that there are over 100,000 Indians at Kenya. What type of occupations are these persons largely involved in?
* Business & Trading.
9. What is typical working hour in Kenya?
8 AM to 5 PM ......extends to 6 PM.
10. Does the apartment have the following amenities:
a) 24 hour security - Yes
b) 24 hour guaranteed water supply - Yes
c) 24 hour power supply backup - Yes
11. Are there Indian families in the locality / apartment where my wife/kid can mingle and spend time during the day when I'm at office?
Yes a big Indian community.
12. Does the company have some sort of initiative for families of expatriates (like some associations for wives, etc)?
No, but huge Indian communities, wives make friends faster and lots. They go for aerobics/yoga.
1. How good are the living conditions - can it be comparable to the Tier I (Mumbai, Delhi, Chennai) or Tier II (Nagpur, Cochin, Mysore) cities in India?
* (opinion 1) Its good clean city, infrastructure and facilities compared to Pune/ Nagpur.
But Nightlife and entertainment compared to Mumbai. Lots of restaurants and hang out places, and fun loving crowd.
* (opinion 2) Nairobi is just a replica of Bangalore. Good weather and hectic traffic
2. How good are the schooling facilities at Nairobi? Are any Indian Schools available?
* Yes Schooling is good, Catholic schools and Asian Schools are there apart from local.
Indian School OSHWAL ACADEMY and AGHA KHAN SCHOOL is there.
3. What is the academic year followed at Kenya? Like June to April in India.
* June to April
4. What is the cost for a good 3 bedroom apartment for rental in safe neighborhood?
* 35,000 Ksh to 45,000 Ksh in a good locality;
Apartments with security services Budget 15,000 to 25,000 Ksh (.61 INR = 1 Kenya Shillings)
5. How are the general living conditions for the following:
* Living - 15,000 ksh Grocery
* Transport - Use company car /Taxi depending on distance
* Medical treatment - Hospitals are good. Insurance is available and is costly than INDIA
* School education - UK education system & Kenya board
* Telephones - 5 Mobile operators & Internet providers
* Food and restaurants - Very good Indian restaurants too.
6. Can you please provide some inputs on the income tax details for salaried Indian expats?
* 30 % Tax deducted at source on basic and commissions. Not yet found any tax savings Instrument for expats.
Some companies pay net figure after all the tax deductions.
7. Are earnings and savings eligible for repatriation from Kenya without many restrictions? Will there be any taxes and withholding fees for remittances into India?
* Remittance is no issues; not taxed, charges for remittance Ksh 2000 to HDFC /ICICI etc
* Indian banks are there Bank of India / Bank of Baroda, HDFC has partnership with local bank.
* Some companies pay expat salary in USD and partly in Ksh for local expenses.
8. I understand that there are over 100,000 Indians at Kenya. What type of occupations are these persons largely involved in?
* Business & Trading.
9. What is typical working hour in Kenya?
8 AM to 5 PM ......extends to 6 PM.
10. Does the apartment have the following amenities:
a) 24 hour security - Yes
b) 24 hour guaranteed water supply - Yes
c) 24 hour power supply backup - Yes
11. Are there Indian families in the locality / apartment where my wife/kid can mingle and spend time during the day when I'm at office?
Yes a big Indian community.
12. Does the company have some sort of initiative for families of expatriates (like some associations for wives, etc)?
No, but huge Indian communities, wives make friends faster and lots. They go for aerobics/yoga.
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
MSc Telecom Technology(Sikkim Manipal University)
Very good course for busy telecom professionals (both experienced BSS/OSS)
Syllabus given below
Semester 1
========
Computer Basics
C & OOP
Basic Electronics for Telecom
Java Programming
Basic Principles of Networking
Semester 2
========
Principles of Digital Telecom
Broadband communication network
Wireless communication system
mathematics for Telecommunication
Database management
Software Engineering
Semester 3
========
Overview of Telecom Technology
Switching & Transmission Fundamentals
New Generation Networks(optical based)
Signalling System Number - 7 (SS-7)
WML Scripts & WAP
Client Server Architecture
Semester -4
=========
Voice over IP (VOIP)
Geographical Information System (GIS)
Artificial Intelligence & Remote Communications
Billing & Customer Care
Telecommunication Regulation, Market & Service
Project
Syllabus given below
Semester 1
========
Computer Basics
C & OOP
Basic Electronics for Telecom
Java Programming
Basic Principles of Networking
Semester 2
========
Principles of Digital Telecom
Broadband communication network
Wireless communication system
mathematics for Telecommunication
Database management
Software Engineering
Semester 3
========
Overview of Telecom Technology
Switching & Transmission Fundamentals
New Generation Networks(optical based)
Signalling System Number - 7 (SS-7)
WML Scripts & WAP
Client Server Architecture
Semester -4
=========
Voice over IP (VOIP)
Geographical Information System (GIS)
Artificial Intelligence & Remote Communications
Billing & Customer Care
Telecommunication Regulation, Market & Service
Project
Monday, January 30, 2012
Shama (Prayer of Jews)
Happy New Year dear blog readers,
Shema Yisrael Shema Eloheinu Shema Eḥad. (Hear, O Israel, the Name is our God, the Name is One.)
This is jew belief as we Christians believe that God is Holy Trinity(Father, Son and Holy Spirit)
Shema Yisrael Shema Eloheinu Shema Eḥad. (Hear, O Israel, the Name is our God, the Name is One.)
This is jew belief as we Christians believe that God is Holy Trinity(Father, Son and Holy Spirit)
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